re: VENT!!
Ok, some people just REALLY don't get it!

I replied to the relative who wanted one of their kid's S.O. to be at the wedding this morning. I was very polite in explaining that because of capacity issues we are limited to the number of people that we are allowed to invite. I also mentioned that we could not invite some of our friends because of this restriction. So why would I want a person whom I don't know, have no connection with whatsoever to be at my wedding when I can invite someone that I at least have some sort of aquaintance with?!?!?!?!!?

FREAKING CRAZY!!!

This is the same relative that pretty much told us that s/he did not want my lil brother to be their kid's wedding (other kid who is now married, not the one with the S.O. in this problem). And now s/he wants this non-relative to be at my wedding?!?!

I DON'T THINK SO

Really feel like some angry Korn music right now.....